The Mystic's Message

You might be right, but...

You might be right...

But if no one can hear you because you're...

  • judging and criticizing
  • making others wrong or 
  • making them feel stupid and "less than"

...did you actually accomplish anything?

Or did you just make yourself feel better for a minute because you got the right answer?

So is it more important to be right?

Or would you rather help people find a better truth and help yourself along the way? 

How you answer this question changes everything...

Nick
The Mystic Next Door

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Healthy or "Not sick?"

People use this word all time time.

An important word, to be sure...

But when I listen to them talk, this quote keeps running through my head...

“You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.”

Which word?

Health. 

It's weird because if you listen closely, you'll realize that 90% of the conversations are actually about illness. 

And I've noticed that there is a huge misunderstanding that just because you're "not sick" somehow it means you must be healthy. 

So …

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Incomparable

They say that Comparison is the thief of joy.

And it's true!

Comparing yourself to others takes your eye OFF your unique contribution and places it on others. That's nice for them. For you? Not so much...

It's like taking a big ol' sack of your energy and just handing it over. 

But if you look closely, you'll see that comparison isn't the real problem. 

The thing that drains your energy is PERSONALIZING the comparison. 

Because if you say, "That person is taller than me," it's no big deal…

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A Nice Idea

"That seems like a nice idea. I'd love to do that...someday..." 

Don't get me wrong. It's wonderful to let your mind wander and explore possibility. 

But it's also important to recognize the difference between a "nice idea" and a commitment. 

Maybe it's just the introvert in me, but going out on a Friday night is a nice idea...until I'm done with the week and all I want to do is cook a nice meal and relax on the couch...

Fortunately my friends know me well enough to allow me a little grace b…

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How to Live Full Out

"Buy the ticket. Take the ride."
-Hunter S. Thompson

Buy the ticket. Take the ride. 

Not the other way around. 

When you buy the ticket, you're in. Until you do that, it's just a nice idea. Something you might do...someday...maybe...

You have to buy the ticket, and you pay for it with...

...your time

...your attention

...your effort

...and yes...

...your money.

Will it be worth it? You won't really know until you're on the other side. Even then, it might take you a little time to reali…

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The Snake

The Snake

You're walking down a trail, warm sunlight gently brushing your skin, when suddenly, out of the corner of your eye, you see it...

Did it just move, or was that a play of the light? 

You freeze.

Staring. Waiting.

Adrenaline pumping through your system. Trying to determine whether or not it's safe to take another step...

Is it a rope?

Or is it a snake? 

Maybe there's nothing to worry about at all...

But make the wrong choice and it could cost you big time! 

This is the power of perception…

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Notes on Inter-Dimensional Travel

Making simple things complicated is one of the things the human mind does best. Looking for answers EVERYWHERE but here and now.

And I can't help but ask...

Why go to other dimensions when you don’t have this one sorted out?

Why try to heal your past lives while you are adding fuel to the fire in this present one?

Why obsess over your dreams when your waking life is in chaos?

Rather than chasing answers across the multi-verse, I offer you this alternative...

Assume that you have everything…

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⚠️ Work in progress

You're not a work in progress because something is inherently wrong with you that needs fixing. 

To assume that is to assume nature made mistakes with you that are somehow now your responsibility to correct. 

Instead, what if you assumed that you were perfectly designed? And rather than fixing, your work is to realize your inherent perfection? To know it and live it and bring it forth into the world...

That's a "work in progress" that will END the exhausting chase and put you firmly on the pa…

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Filling the space?

What is it about empty space that's so unsettling? 

No sooner does the empty space appear, and we're looking to fill it with...

a book

a task

a thought

a game

a show

a diversion

We're grateful for the space opening up, but not because we can leave it empty. We're grateful because we can fill it with something more pressing, or if we're lucky, more pleasing than whatever was there before. 

When did it become so wrong to just do nothing? 

When did it become so difficult to rest in the qu…

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The hard part of creative work

Everyone says they want to do the fun creative work. It seems so exciting, romantic even, to pull something out of yourself and give it shape and form in the world. 

Until...

The deadline is looming and...

you're stuck for an idea!

You don't know where to start, or where to go from here. 

And it all gets very stressful very fast. 

Suddenly, all those little mundane things seem very important. Surely you can't write that piece, or compose that song, or come up with your next offer until you…

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